Mending Thoughts
It’s going to take less time than you think
It’s going to take more time than you think
If it’s worth repairing, it’s worth repairing right
Even if you have to redo it
It’s all worth repairing
Even if you end up not being able to fix it
Everything has a natural end point
No one individual act makes the difference, but every small act adds up. You are everyone
Repairing is caring
You’re going to have to mend this thing again later - that’s part of the commitment to your belongings. Mending is never done
To speed up, slow down. Or, “the hurried-er I go, the behind-er I get”
Doing something feels good
Doing too much at once can physically hurt you (See also: back exercises as care and repair)
While rage and angst can push you into action, sustaining that action comes from a place of calm
Mending can be relaxing, but don’t expect every mend to relax you
Be prepared. Preparation reduces friction and makes sustained activity possible
You can do anything, but not everything, and that is ok
If you have time to scroll, you have time to sew (credit to Zoe of Check Your Thread for this clever phrasing!)
Practice makes better: the more you do, the more you learn, the better you get
You’ll relearn these lessons many times
You are still yourself. That is amazing
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This is uncited work. If anyone would like to read my original post and thoughts, you may do so here: https://thepeoplesmending.substack.com/p/twenty-one-take-aways-from-five-winters?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=4hco7
In this house all of this is true on any given day - I'm definitely at 2 today!😄